When you’ve been on your own for a while, it is understandable to feel negative and that you will never meet Mr or Mrs Right. However, that feeling which reality has instilled within you could not be more misleading!
As a singleton myself, I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason and that good things come to those who wait, and I must say, this outlook has helped me to maintain single sanity. However, keeping myself busy with other things has also been highly beneficial and I feel that these suggestions will be great for you if you feel that you are stuck in a 'singlelife' rut
Common reasons for being single
However, before I go into more detail about these, I feel it is important to touch on some of the most common reasons which people use to self-justify why they are single.
A broken heart from a previous relationship, health/body insecurities or even past life experiences …
but the fact of the matter is, that if you meet the right person and you are open with them about your woes, then they will accept you for who you are and you will not have to feel worried. If someone likes you enough, they will do what they can to help heal you and to provide you with that reassurance that they are there for you and that they think you are a beautiful, regardless of the ‘baggage’ which you may have. At the end of the day, everyone has ‘baggage’, it is just about finding someone else who wants to help lift that weight of your shoulders and be your rock.
If you’ve dated someone previously and it has not worked out, remember not to take it personally. Life is not straight forward and sometimes you can meet the right person but the timing could not be worse. What is meant to be will be, so be patient and in the meantime, find nice distractions!
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Guest blog by hellolucyxo - dating & lifestyle blogger.